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A New Year Means Time To Get To Work – What Are Your Plans For 2020?

Motivation is when your dreams put on work clothes.”

Aaron Spelling

It is almost 2020. A milestone year? It can be if you put on your working clothes and follow your dreams.

Even more important is your attitude. Put on your best attitude because without it being successful in achieving your dreams will not be easy.

Why do we make it so difficult to follow through? We have so many tools available to us; it should be easy. We over-complicate. We need to keep it simple.

What is the right combination for each of us? What plan works for me may not work for you. Our goals will probably be different, and each of us will be working with a different attitude and a different skill set.


The first step and the easiest is deciding what you want to do. Take a little time and think about your goal. What do you want to accomplish? Then write it down, so it is clear and concise.


Now that you have set your goal by writing it down, you need to make a plan of action. Your goal is a statement of intent. You have acknowledged your commitment by writing it down.

Now you need to make a plan . How are you going to achieve it? What steps do you need to take to make it happen?

Your goal is something you should focus on every day. Write it down and look at it each day. Use sticky notes and place them in locations where you will see them often.


When do you want or need to complete your goal? It is not enough to write it down. There is more required. Decide on a date of completion. If you do not have an endpoint, it is easy to lose your focus.

I think it is critical to plan out how you are going to attain your goal. That means dividing your goal into steps or sections. Visualize the steps and put them on paper. Set a time limit for completing each step and also a date for the completion of your goal.

Use visual reminders such as a whiteboard, calendar, and planner.

Schedule in some wiggle room for any adjustments you may have to make as you work on completing your goal.


As part of moving forward in life and achieving any goal, it is important to learn new skills. You have set your goal, you have written it down, and you have decided on a deadline. Can you realistically complete the goal with the skill set you have, or will it be necessary to learn a new skill?

If you need to learn a new skill, what is required, and how long will it take? You will need to factor this into your plan and your schedule for completion. I firmly believe it is beneficial to learn new skills. Always read to keep up to date with current events and different viewpoints. You never know when they may help you in your work or personal life.


Be aware of your mindset. Check your attitude as you work through achieving your goal. It can be easy to get discouraged, tired, and lose confidence. As part of the process of completing your goals, be sure to surround yourself with like-minded, positive people. Encourage them and do the same for your self. Tell yourself you are doing a good job and remind your self of the value of your goal. Be optimistic.

Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.

Helen Keller


Now that you have all your ducks in a row and you have a clear goal and an organized, realistic plan, it is time to start. Take the first step. There is no reason to wait because if you hesitate, it becomes easier and easier to put it off. Before you know it, months may have gone by, and you will not have moved forward toward your goal.

Be excited. Take the first step and then the next. You will gain confidence as you progress through your plan, and each step will feel more natural to you. Each step will be easier to make.


Remember that not everything may go as planned. There may be a correction needed, but do let it stop you. Reassess and do not panic. Remember, you put in some wiggle room in your schedule, just in case. You may need to make adjustments to your plan. Do not stop. It may be irritating, and it may be disheartening, but it does not mean you cannot complete your goal. Make any needed adjustments and take the next step.

Stay focused on the completion of your goal. Use your tools, look at your schedule, and keep pushing your self forward. Each day will bring you closer to achieving your goal.

As you go through this process, always focus on the result. You should acknowledge the ups and downs of the process and what you have learned along the way. Every step is a learning process and a confidence builder. You gain confidence because you realize you already had the skill to do A and B, and because you learned new skills, you were able to complete C, D, and E.

Congratulate and reward yourself for a job well done.

Know that going forward, you have a new skill set and are better prepared to conquer your next goal.

Get ready. It’s almost 2020. Believe in yourself!

Take a leap of faith and begin this wondrous new year by believing.”

Sarah Ban Breathnach

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Don’t let anyone define you. You define yourself.”

— Billie Jean King

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Time To Plan For 2020 How To Make An Effective Strategy For The New Year

What the new years brings to you will depend a great deal on what you bring to the new year”.

Vern McLellan

It’s December and Christmas is just three weeks away. What? How did that happen, I haven’t made any plans yet for next year.

A new year, a new you, a new plan. Time to decide what you want to accomplish in 2020.

What do you want to achieve? What is important and what comes first?

What is your strategy? How do you decide?

If you are like the majority of people, you have these vague plans circulating in your head. You know, the stuff you have been thinking about for most of the year. There may even be a thing or two you wanted to do this year, but you never quite got around to doing.

You need a plan, a good plan, a realistic plan. You need a plan that is not scattered in your head. Every year we tell ourselves that this year will be different and that this year, you will be organized, and you will follow through on your goals.

Now is the time to make sure that happens. Sit down with a blank piece of paper and a pencil and start writing down random thoughts. Close your eyes and think about all the things you want to happen, not just for your work, but for your life.

It is essential to include both. Quite often, we focus on work because that is how we make our living. Our work provides us with income to survive. But life is more than work, and we also need to plan for the things that make us happy. Write it all down.

You may want to write everything down and then walk away for a while. Let it brew for an hour or two, maybe even overnight, Then come back and start breaking it down. Put your random thoughts into categories. Label them ‘work’ and ‘personal’ and then break each of those down again. Maybe list them from most important to least important.

Don’t make it over complicated. Keep it simple and direct, and also keep it real.

When you have a list of your goals, break them down. How are you going to do them? It is great to have goals, but where we usually fail is by not planning the steps of how to complete them.

Let’s say you want to learn to speak another language, or you want to participate in physical activity such as karate. You will need to do some research and break it down into steps. Where can I take a class, how often should I take a class? How long does each class last; an hour? Can I take a class nearby, and if not, how far away do I have to drive? You need all the pertinent information so you can plan for it and include it in your schedule.

You will need to do this with all of your goals, both professional and personal. Remember to be realistic. There are so many hours in each day.

Buy a calendar and a planner. There are many great planners which will give you options for daily, weekly, and monthly. The choice is up to you. Some people use more than one. Of course, you can also use your computer. Mix it up. There is no reason you can’t use all of these options if that is what works for you. Make it as simple and easy as possible.

Look over your schedule, all your goals, and the time you need to relax and recharge. Do you need to dial it back?

Remember, if you overload yourself, it is likely you will not be successful.

Be sure to talk to your family so they understand what you want to accomplish. When they are aware of your plans and see how much effort you are putting into achieving them, they will want to participate and help you. It is a great learning tool for children. Remember, no one watches you more than your children. They are learning from your example.

This is your plan for the new year. Enjoy the process. It can be a learning experience for you, as well. When you are planning out the year ahead, you are thinking about what is important, what your values are.

It also allows you to reflect on 2019 and what you achieved, what worked, and what did not. If something did not work, it is another opportunity for growth; what can you do to improve and do it better the next time.

Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to get it right.

Oprah Winfrey

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Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.”

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Don’t be afraid to start over again. This time, you are not starting from scratch, you are starting from experience.”

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Stepping onto a brand new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.”

Maya Angelou

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What Value Can I Add To My Life Today? How Will I Spend My Time? What About You?

 “Try not to become a man of success. Rather become a man of value.”

— Albert Einstein
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Recently I have been spending time contemplating where I am, mentally, emotionally, and physically.

Am I happy and content? What do I need to do, and how can I do it better. How can I be more effective?

This is not about doing my best for a job or for someone else. This is about doing my best for me, and in turn for those I care about.

What is most important? How about you? How often do you spend time, quality time, committed to understanding what is important?

How many of us slow down to the extent that we understand ourselves?

We are continually exposed to so much and it all affects us. It changes us, particularly when we are not paying attention. Have you done a check-up recently and asked yourself what is important in your life?

Do you ask yourself the important questions? How are you? Are you comfortable in your own skin? Do you like yourself, your thoughts, your actions? What do you care about? Are you happy? Are you growing, intellectually, emotionally, spiritually?

There are a few recent, or upcoming events, that have probably inspired me to do some soul searching.

The big holidays of the year, Thanksgiving and Christmas, and then the New Year is right around the corner. Most everyone looks for ways to change, or improve, at the end of the year. So much to think about.

I have been spending time thinking about family. The birth of a beautiful granddaughter, new life. The health of my husband which is deteriorating. My toddler grandson, who is so smart and energetic, brimming with excitement. My teenage granddaughter, beautiful and becoming her own person. My two sons who are such compassionate, intelligent people who I am so proud of. All the stages of life spreading out before me. I watch with love and joy.

My writing this blog; where do I want to go with it? Do I want to make changes? How can I make it better? How can I bring more value to myself and my followers?

Writing articles for Medium. This experience has been so enlightening and so challenging. It is an opportunity to write about anything I want, any subject, any experience, any emotion. I am in awe of the others who share their stories. Most of the time I feel I am unworthy of sharing the same place with them.

Writing is something I will definitely focus on in the coming year. It encourages me to learn the craft of writing and to increase my knowledge on many levels. It is stretching my mind and refreshing my brain cells; who doesn’t need that!

What it comes down to is being better. As I have said before, I want to be a better version of myself. I just wrote an opinion piece on Medium,

Writing it has been a result of many moments of frustration, anger, disbelief and sadness. It is a result of disillusionment of the narrative that exists and the actions taken. It frightens me. I cannot accept that.

So, as a result, I have looked deeper into my own beliefs and feelings. I do not want to be influenced by the negativity that exists in this country at this moment in time.

This next year will be about adding value to my life.

Each morning I will ask myself this question, “What good shall I do this day?”

Will you join me?

The compass of compassion asks not what is good for me, but what is good? Not what is best for me, but what is best? Not what is right for me, but what is right? Not how much can we take, but how much ought we leave, and how much might we give? Not what is easy, but what is worthy. Not what is practical, but what is moral.

Carl Safina

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